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seven years with leo

Humans of Dublin shared a heartbreaking story of a woman's journey with a man who had Alzheimer's

“I spent seven years with Leo, slowly unlocking more and more about his life story.”

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THE HUMANS OF Dublin Facebook page consistently brings us stories of laughter, heartbreak and love from the streets of the capital.

It’s got so popular that that they made a book out of all the wonderful tales.

And tonight they shared a story of one woman’s volunteer work with the Alzheimer’s Society

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Speaking to photographer Peter Varga, the unnamed woman spoke about how she began volunteering:

I was very close with my grandmother, spending all my weekends at her house. And when she developed Alzheimer’s, we had the pleasure of looking after her in our family home. I was hugely impacted by how her quirky inner Dublin city personality was stripped away and how fast it disappeared. After she died, I decided to apply for a case workers job with the Alzheimer’s Society. I had no real experience apart from that with my grandmother, but they let me give it a try.

And the very first case she was assigned was with a man named Leo, an artist:

Leo was my first case and the most memorable one too. He was an artist with early stage Alzheimer’s, and he was vulnerable and alone. He had never married or had children, so most of his days were spent at home by himself. He dedicated every room in the house to his paintings, which spanned over sixty years. I spent seven years with Leo, slowly unlocking more and more about his life story. Our Saturdays were made up of trips to different art galleries, and he had a major interest for Padraig Pearse which would bring back little memories about his years during the rebellion. I knew, dropping him back to his house those evenings, that he would have forgotten completely about our day within five minutes of me leaving. That didn’t matter, though. I left him feeling great!

And the page included a picture of the pair as well

It made her realise that her time with Leo left her with some important lessons:

Leo hadn't the ability to think five minutes ago or ahead, so he was left with that feeling, and it put him in a very zen-like state. Whenever I was with him, it put me in the same sort of state. He taught me a lot about how to be present, and to enjoy life by the minute. When his condition progressed and became more serious the decision was made that he enter into a nursing home where he would be taken care of 24 hours a day. This is when everything changed.

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