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Dear Fifi: I committed major fraud at work - but I stand by what I did
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Dear Fifi: I committed major fraud at work - but I stand by what I did

Mar 19th 2019, 6:00 PM 15,957 Views 5 Comments

Dear Fifi: I'm still a virgin, how can I get it over with?
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Dear Fifi: I'm still a virgin, how can I get it over with?

Feb 6th 2019, 10:36 AM 11,523 Views 2 Comments

How do I ask my housemate to stop going to town on himself in the shared shower every day? It's Dear Fifi
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How do I ask my housemate to stop going to town on himself in the shared shower every day? It's Dear Fifi

Jan 22nd 2019, 6:00 PM 18,131 Views 5 Comments

Dealing with a scabby friend and a man who finds his new mot irritating - it's time for Dear Fifi
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Dealing with a scabby friend and a man who finds his new mot irritating - it's time for Dear Fifi

Jan 15th 2019, 6:00 PM 8,920 Views 3 Comments

Secret wedding woes, making pals, a commitment-phobic long-term fella, keeping the friends after a breakup - it's Dear Fifi
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Secret wedding woes, making pals, a commitment-phobic long-term fella, keeping the friends after a breakup - it's Dear Fifi

Jan 8th 2019, 6:00 PM 8,346 Views 0 Comments

Dear Fifi: I'm worried that my boyfriend enjoys taking drugs too much - what can I do?
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Dear Fifi: I'm worried that my boyfriend enjoys taking drugs too much - what can I do?

Jan 1st 2019, 6:00 PM 9,775 Views 0 Comments

Dear Fifi: We're all worried about our housemate's drinking - but what can we do?
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Dear Fifi: We're all worried about our housemate's drinking - but what can we do?

Dec 25th 2018, 6:00 PM 7,253 Views 1 Comment

Dating someone who is extremely online, macking on a shy person and climate change anxiety - it's Dear Fifi
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Dating someone who is extremely online, macking on a shy person and climate change anxiety - it's Dear Fifi

Dec 4th 2018, 6:00 PM 10,485 Views 0 Comments

Missing a bad ex but not the nice lad, losing a 30 year friendship, dealing with a wagon at work - it's Dear Fifi
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Missing a bad ex but not the nice lad, losing a 30 year friendship, dealing with a wagon at work - it's Dear Fifi

Nov 20th 2018, 6:00 PM 9,691 Views 1 Comment

Dear Fifi: Does her cheating mean my relationship was just a lie?
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Dear Fifi: Does her cheating mean my relationship was just a lie?

Oct 9th 2018, 6:00 PM 8,657 Views 2 Comments

Dear Fifi: I hate my sister's new fella
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Dear Fifi: I hate my sister's new fella

Sep 25th 2018, 6:00 PM 11,247 Views 0 Comments

Dear Fifi: I'm still waiting for an apology from my ex - is this stupid?
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Dear Fifi: I'm still waiting for an apology from my ex - is this stupid?

Sep 11th 2018, 6:00 PM 10,116 Views 3 Comments

Dear Fifi: I cheated on my husband - and honestly? I'm not sorry
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Dear Fifi: I cheated on my husband - and honestly? I'm not sorry

Sep 4th 2018, 6:00 PM 20,203 Views 0 Comments

Dear Fifi: Am I bad at sex?
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Dear Fifi: Am I bad at sex?

Aug 14th 2018, 7:03 PM 13,848 Views 0 Comments

A love triangle, the ethics of sending nudes and getting over jealousy - it's Dear Fifi
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A love triangle, the ethics of sending nudes and getting over jealousy - it's Dear Fifi

Aug 7th 2018, 6:00 PM 8,190 Views 3 Comments

Dear Fifi: Is my generation doomed to be miserable?
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Dear Fifi: Is my generation doomed to be miserable?

Jul 31st 2018, 6:00 PM 6,505 Views 0 Comments

Dear Fifi: My boyfriend wants to keep our relationship a secret
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Dear Fifi: My boyfriend wants to keep our relationship a secret

Jul 17th 2018, 6:30 PM 7,748 Views 0 Comments

Dear Fifi: How do I deal with people who just really f*cking annoy me?
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Dear Fifi: How do I deal with people who just really f*cking annoy me?

Jul 10th 2018, 6:00 PM 8,146 Views 3 Comments

Dear Fifi: It’s time for another rapidfire round!
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Dear Fifi: It’s time for another rapidfire round!

Jul 3rd 2018, 6:00 PM 6,611 Views 0 Comments

Dear Fifi: I slept with my Dad's mate, what do I do now?
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Dear Fifi: I slept with my Dad's mate, what do I do now?

Jun 19th 2018, 6:00 PM 11,444 Views 1 Comment

Dear Fifi: How do I make friends?
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Dear Fifi: How do I make friends?

Jun 12th 2018, 6:00 PM 6,496 Views 1 Comment

Dear Fifi: How do I get the hell over an ex?
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Dear Fifi: How do I get the hell over an ex?

May 29th 2018, 6:00 PM 6,247 Views 2 Comments

Dear Fifi: Embarrassing flashbacks, going bald, Twitter crushes and more - it's your quickfire questions
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Dear Fifi: Embarrassing flashbacks, going bald, Twitter crushes and more - it's your quickfire questions

May 22nd 2018, 6:00 PM 4,140 Views 0 Comments

Dear Fifi: Is a bad sex life just my cross to bear?
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Dear Fifi: Is a bad sex life just my cross to bear?

May 15th 2018, 6:00 PM 7,783 Views 2 Comments

Dear Fifi: How do I come out to my friends as pro-life?
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Dear Fifi: How do I come out to my friends as pro-life?

May 8th 2018, 6:00 PM 16,319 Views 43 Comments

Dear Fifi: Am I an asshole?
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Dear Fifi: Am I an asshole?

May 1st 2018, 6:00 PM 10,243 Views 2 Comments

Dear Fifi: Why do I keep on getting ghosted?
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Dear Fifi: Why do I keep on getting ghosted?

Apr 17th 2018, 6:00 PM 8,355 Views 1 Comment

Dear Fifi: I'm gay, I slept with a close (straight) friend and now she's blanking me - what do I do?
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Dear Fifi: I'm gay, I slept with a close (straight) friend and now she's blanking me - what do I do?

Apr 10th 2018, 6:00 PM 10,510 Views 0 Comments

Dear Fifi: It's lots more quickfire questions!
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Dear Fifi: It's lots more quickfire questions!

Apr 3rd 2018, 6:00 PM 5,169 Views 0 Comments

Dear Fifi: How do I become more confident talking to the opposite sex?
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Dear Fifi: How do I become more confident talking to the opposite sex?

Mar 20th 2018, 6:00 PM 3,828 Views 1 Comment

Dear Fifi: How do you deal with the anxiety of social media?
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Dear Fifi: How do you deal with the anxiety of social media?

Mar 6th 2018, 6:00 PM 4,139 Views 1 Comment

Dear Fifi: How am I meant to flirt with women in the #MeToo era?
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Dear Fifi: How am I meant to flirt with women in the #MeToo era?

Jan 23rd 2018, 6:00 PM 7,787 Views 20 Comments

Dear Fifi: It's quickfire questions!
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Dear Fifi: It's quickfire questions!

Dec 26th 2017, 6:00 PM 5,045 Views 0 Comments

Dear Fifi: How do I adjust to moving to Dublin?
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Dear Fifi: How do I adjust to moving to Dublin?

Dec 12th 2017, 6:00 PM 5,561 Views 3 Comments

Dear Fifi: I don't feel like my mother likes me. How do I get over that?
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Dear Fifi: I don't feel like my mother likes me. How do I get over that?

Nov 28th 2017, 6:00 PM 5,067 Views 10 Comments

Dear Fifi: Why do women go for dickheads?
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Dear Fifi: Why do women go for dickheads?

Nov 21st 2017, 6:00 PM 12,174 Views 15 Comments

Dear Fifi: My other half is obsessed with her phone and it's ruining our relationship
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Dear Fifi: My other half is obsessed with her phone and it's ruining our relationship

Nov 14th 2017, 6:00 PM 6,191 Views 1 Comment

Dear Fifi: I fancy my mate... but he's asked me to be his wingwoman
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Dear Fifi: I fancy my mate... but he's asked me to be his wingwoman

Oct 31st 2017, 6:00 PM 6,485 Views 7 Comments

Dear Fifi: I'm nearly 30 and I don't feel like I've clocked up enough of life's milestones
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Dear Fifi: I'm nearly 30 and I don't feel like I've clocked up enough of life's milestones

Oct 24th 2017, 6:00 PM 8,322 Views 5 Comments

Dear Fifi: I'm a non-believer - and I think I'm falling for a staunch Catholic
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Dear Fifi: I'm a non-believer - and I think I'm falling for a staunch Catholic

Oct 17th 2017, 6:00 PM 5,777 Views 6 Comments

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